I believe that the best way to check marital compatibility is to first go into dating relationship with the person, so before you get married I want you to carefully think about these things to avoid you regretting it in the future. Then give the answers to yourself because you know the things you are facing in your relationship.
1. Does the person respect you even in the presence of their family and friends?
2. Does he or she admire you more than other opposite gender? You need to find out because if you are not admired by the person more than other opposite gender then cheating on you is easier than you think.
3. Are they proud to be in your life despite knowing that you are not perfect in somethings?
4. Can she cook well and doesn't complain about it? My junior sister has lost numerous boyfriends because of her inexperience to cook well, as a lady reading this post, please I advice you to learn more about cooking different delicacies.
5. Is your partner extravagant in spending money? You should find out and resolve it because marriage is full of expenses.
6. Does your minds and spirits works together? This is very important because it gives room for emotional intimacy and soul bonding for a successful marriage and relationship.
7. Does he or she cherish you more than anyone else in their lives especially the opposite gender? Cherishing my wife more than other women has placed her above them in my life and this has made me to love her afresh everyday. I advice you to find out if it's the same thing with your partner, if not try to win his heart, it will do you a lot of good in the relationship.
8. Does your partner always spend time with their phones unless when sleeping? This is a red flag that they can't be giving you adequate attention and the only time you are needed in their side is when the person want to make love to you. So if you want to divert the person attention to yourself whenever you are at home with him or her give them undisputed and undivided attention to distract their minds with the unnecessary things that's preventing them not to consider your presence.
9. Does your partner protect and fight for you in public even if you did something wrong?
10. Is your spouse the kind of person that doesn't take matter serious until it start hurting the other person feeling?
11. Your lover likes argument and always want to win? Let them know that marriage is not a law court.
12. Your partner likes to always seek advice from third party for everything going on in the relationship?
For all these things mentioned here, you don't have to emotionally push your partner before you will get the answers, you can lovingly ask them for their views instead of making trouble with it, I know you will get your answer without stress.
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