How I Avoided Marriage Pressure From My Girlfriend.

It hurts so bad for someone to determine for me when I should get married to her. For God's sake, I have plans for my life and everything will follow the right process.

I will cut the story short and then move on to how I avoided marriage pressure from my girlfriend.
Of a truth, I love her, and she loves me too. I was giving her a lot of attention, and she felt that I was giving her attention, and I was also committed to making the relationship work for marriage.

We are not in the same state. She always asks for my pictures, which I send to her, and she also sends her own picture to me as well. We were really fanning the flame of love in our relationship so that there's no vacuum in our midst.

I noticed that she's really deep in love with me. I have to open up to her the nature of my job, and currently I am under training which will not end sooner than she taught, I am not receiving any payments from the company and I will not want my parents to take charge of our marital expenses in terms of introduction, traditional marriage and wedding because we can't depend on them after our wedding. The responsibility of our children is solely on our shoulders, especially me, as the man of the house, marriage is not free because needs will be sprouting out one after the other from different angles. I would not like to hurry up and get married and start scratching my head about how to care for you and our kids now that I am taking training at my place.
She understood me, and that's it.
It was a long discussion, but I revealed everything to her and this calmed her down. Also, she believes that I wasn't after her body, but I have the intention of getting married to her.

My girlfriend is 36 in 2024, so she's already ready for marriage based on age and even emotional and mental maturity, but despite my explanation to her about my financial status, sometimes she will tell me on the phone that she's waiting for me to marry her so I can bathe her. Then I will remind her about my training. She will quickly stop talking about the marriage issues.

For 4 months now, she has not mentioned anything about coming to pay her bride price, no more pressure about things we will be doing together when we get married.

As a young man still building your finances, or you don't have a stable source of income flow, maybe your parents are disturbing you about getting married because they want to enjoy their grandchildren before joining their ancestors. Explain to them the way I explained to my girlfriend, and you will be safe from their pressures.

If you allow yourself to be pressured into marriage when you start facing the expense of taking care of yourself and your family, nobody will be there for you. Safe yourself on time just as I did.