Marriage has been instituted right from when God created Adam and Eve in the paradise of Eden. So let just conclude that Marriage originated with mankind as it was ordained and commanded by God our maker.
Of course, God asks us to multiply and replenish the earth but that command was given to a married couple only, and not to those that are singles.
Please read again Genesis 1:27-28 and Genesis 2:18; Genesis 4:1-4.
Again, if you look at the chronological order of why God instituted marriage after he created Adam, you will see that lovemaking between a man and a woman ranks at number 3.
Please let me help you with the chronological order:
1. Companionship or friendship.
2. Partnership between the husband and wife.
3. Sexual pleasure and satisfaction for the husband and wife only.
4. Procreation or better known as childbirth.
Looking at this chronological order you will understand that lovemaking was not initially initiated for singles men and women but for married couples.
So if you are looking at compatibility in marriage before sealing your marriage with your soulmate, remove number from it because it can be adjusted when genuine love and understanding sets in, in the Marriage.
I will advise you to look for compatibility in friendship, partnership, and procreation, number 3 of this chronological order will automatically set in when other things are joyously and happily settled.
Remain blessed and enjoy your single hood while waiting for the right person you have in mind to marry.
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