Before I tell you things about being angry, I am not disputing the facts that's you have the right to be angry whenever you are offended by anyone, also I am not saying that you should not express your anger but I want you to understand that;
Anger is an emotional punishment you give to yourself for someone else's behavior either done by mistake or intentional.
Whenever you refused to forgive someone that offended you, you are not hurting the person but yourself, so whether the person asked for forgiveness or not, after you have informed the person of their wrongdoing, save yourself the pain and trauma and forgive them.
Anytime you refused to forgive your offender, you are depriving yourself a happy, joyous, and peaceful mind, the deed has been done so let go and move on.
If you refuse to forgive you are creating a barrier against your blessing from God, the anger you are harboring against someone could be hindering the answers of your prayers.
Even the Bible said that before you give your offering you should go home and settle with your brother whom you are having problems with., then you come back to give your offering, Matthew 5:23 to 24. You see how important God placed forgiveness?
Try as much as possible to always forgive and live a happier life.
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