Even before marriage begins between the two of you, I mean, while in a serious relationship, it should be clear to you that helping each other is inevitable and is compulsory after you are no longer two bodies, but by the custom of marriage you are now one. Imagine when you want to carry a heavy load on your head. You will need the support of your other hand because only your right or left hand can't do it. That's how being a helper in your marriage is to you and your spouse. Whether married or single, here are the things that will happen when you refuse to be a helper in your marriage.
1) Your marriage will start suffering, but it will start physically because that's what you will see faster than the ones that will happen in the spirit.
2) Your spouse will start having divided attention towards you and that will drastically affect intimacy and lovemaking.
3) They will start looking for helper and shoulders to rest their head outside the marriage and this will lead to extramarital affairs. You know why? Because there's emotional distance, and they want to fill up the space with someone else, since you don't care.
Now that you have known what will happen, this is the best way to solve it.
1) Be your partner's best friend of friends. From there, you will know how to offer help to them after you have known what he or she is facing.
2) Check how they respond to challenges, risk and emergency, from there you will know how to render help.
Your married partner is the same as you, so what pained them or what's disturbing their peace of mind should do the same with you, because of this let your heart tremble when partner doesn't have peace of mind.
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