As a young man, if you're attracted to an older woman especially the married ones, you're not alone. It's quite normal. There's a kind of refining that being married for years does to us, it happens to both men and women.
There are qualities you'll see in a married man or woman that you may NEVER see in a single person. Marriage will teach you patience, tolerance, endurance, accomodations, financial management, sexual skills, communication skills, relationship skills trust, conflict resolution, forgiveness, commitment etc. These are things you may never learn easily as a single person. You may know them in theory but it's a different ball game in marriage.
These qualities mentioned are exactly what some single ladies and men mean when they say older women and men are more understanding, that they are drama free. Yes nah, they have seen shege in the hands of their spouses, a type of shege that has revamped them to the person you admire today, something you may never be told.
So if you're a single person who finds a married older person appealing, know that marriage revamped him or her. Don't try to reap where you didn't show, look for a young counterpart and grow together.
Unfortunately many are not ready to put in the work, you want finished product. But you know one thing with finished product is that some are usually custom made.
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