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Things I Believed About Social Media After I Met My Wife On Facebook.

Life is truly beautiful but it takes very few people to know and understand this especially when it comes to Marriage.
Social Media on its own is another world where different things happen both good and bad, including issues that concerns life in general.

My first girlfriend when I was at the University in 2012, I met her on Facebook and From chatting as mere Facebook friends we became lover. We dating online on Facebook for 5 years before we finally met in Lagos when she for the job I got for her as a nanny. The relationship was going well but unfortunately we were not meant to marry because of something things traditionally we couldn't fix but we are not enemies because of that first bond, I was her first boyfriend and she was also my first girlfriend.



Fast was to 2018, I met another lady on the same Facebook where I made a post about a company looking for workers, she indicated interest but because of location barrier she was ruled out of the job, but then I didn't stop communicating with her as a responsible woman she is. Our communication few weeks later became more often than usual and eventually we began knowing each other more and more, finally fell in love with each other, I invited her to my base, she honored the invitation.
I can vividly remember that the first thing that I offered her that very day was chilled water and then later brought out Mangoes that I bought for us, thank God it was season of mango so I bought big and well ripe ones.
That was how we started dating relationship and I was glad to see the woman I want to marry in her personality. I proposed Marriage to her after 2 months of knowing each other, she happily accepted it.

As I write this personal life story down, we are happily married with two kids, and I will keep on saying it that I am happy to have her in my life.

My Advice To The Singles.
Believe you can meet your partner anywhere on social media, I have experienced it, and I am not the first person and I know I will not be the last person, it could be online or offline, even in the street where you are still a stranger or a visitor.  Be open and be real, be the original you want to enjoy from your partner because you can't receive what you can't pay for.

Marriage is very sweet and is only when you are with your soulmate and not just a marital partner.

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