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The Marriage I Got Myself Into.

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I never knew what Marriage is actually all about when I got married to my wife. I thought since we truly and sincerely love each other genuinely, then it's enough to be in marriage but I was totally wrong, I have think about it several times and conclude that I was wrong.

Yes I love her deep down my heart and she does the same to me as well, but frankly speaking, Marriage is more than just confessing love to your partner, dear friend marriage not as you see it okay, it's more deep than you have known, you will discover more when you get married.



So now based on experience I want to let you know the things that will make you happy in your marriage at all times, it help me, even individually we are all different in so many things but at the same time there are things that can actually work for everyone.

1. You must be tolerance. Yes I said must and that's how it should be. Hope you know that your partner can get angry even in something you didn't imagine will make him or her angry? If you are not tolerance there will be fight and quarrel all the time in your home. You must be tolerance, overlook things even if you have the opportunity to caution the person, not every action from your partner to you deserves response because there are some that your response can ignite trouble and some that your silence and tolerance will ignite peace and happiness in your marriage.

2. Always be patient. This one as well is mandatory. I must believe that you are aware that everyone does not have the same learning ability? So because you are a fast learner should not make you to always put your lover under pressure to adapt, you must be patient with each other. You know, in marriage, even in relationship we learn new things about romance and intimacy everyday right? So when you have new ideas or have learned something new for the of your home don't be in a hurry and put your partner under pressure to adapt, please be patient.

3. Forgiveness. Waow, this is another important thing in marriage. When I met my wife, I mean while dating, she openly told me that she has hot temper this happened while we were asking questions to know ourselves better, I have hot temper too but as the man I am, I decided to be in control so I learnt how to accommodate her while creating room for forgiveness. Are you surprised what concerned hot temper and forgiveness? Are you not aware that someone that's hoplt temper can say hurting words? Can act violently and even destroy things? If you can't forgive and control things, your house could be emotionally on fire.

Forgiveness should be inevitable in your marriage because everyone of us has verbal power, many times this verbal power is expressed in anger, sometimes is even something you didn't commit that the anger is channelled against you. If you don't know how to forgive, I tell you that your marriage will not last up to a year and it will be break into pieces.

These things has truly helped me out that till now I am happily married. If your partner is facing any of these things I said, I implore you to take action, help the person out, pray for him or her, to heal fast. 

Please be informed that by helping the person you are making efforts for him or her to be the person you want them to be in the Marriage.
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