He Abandon Me And Our Children, After Relocating From Port Harcourt.

Please hide my friend identity. I am having 4 kids for a man I am staying with with out not even introduction or Bride price not been paid and is not that he is not working he is working well but when the money comes he ends up spending on many women and he doesn't value me or my kids.

So about 2 years now he was transferred from Port Harcourt to Lagos so when he went to Lagos and left I and the kids in port Harcourt he was really making money but not taking care of us even his boys in the boat started building their house just in less than 3 months so his boys and everyone in the boat started calling me that I should advise my husband to spend his money wisely because he doesn't sleep in the boat anymore, instead he lodge hotel every now and then he changes woman mind you then I just put to birth twins and I stopped working and out of stress and I Lost one baby because when I was pregnant and due to birth them they said is operation.

So I called him to come because I don't have any body to help me so he told me that if I didn't see him I will not give birth that I should remain there because he won't come so after a lot of arguments he later said that one of his boy is not feeling well, not knowing that the boy was fine and the boy was disturbing him to go for his time off so he told the boy that he is not coming that the boy should go for his turn and finally the boy came and the boy he lied to me that is sick was the person that accompany me to the hospital to give birth.

After delivery he didn't still come for the baby naming he lied that he doesn't have transport from Lagos to PH, after 3 weeks he came and went back in one week his next coming was the baby dedication and he came a night at about 9pm on Saturday and Sunday the next morning was the dedication and left again the next 3 days claiming he is going back to work.

His younger sister called me from the village that he spent 2 weeks with them which i knew nothing about so I became angry and I cursed that night because when ever I call him for feeding money he will say he doesn't have that they have not gone to work and all his co-workers are busy coming to Port Harcourt to buy one property to another.

So I called him and told him that all your co-workers are doing all this and you that don't even have much responsibilities like them have not even acquired anything, so he told me that is non of my business that I can not advise him on how to use his money and mind you since I put to birth I stopped working because the twins was delivered vaginally because I was booked for CS but before the appointment time I put to birth normally through vagina.

So I was almost paralyzed I couldn't walk for almost 2 months plus, even till this minute I can't stand upright without pains on my left leg so out of frustration and a lot of suffering I called him one day and cursed him that since after praying for him when the money comes he uses them on girls that he will suffer.

So at exactly 3 months container that they supplied was stolen so they arrested him and his captain and the owners of the stuff took them to prison in lagos for the past 2 year's now and I have been struggling with my 4 kids.

Along the line I met a guy that is helping me with cash and now he is asking me to marry him though he is single and 39 of age but he is not aware that I have kids because we haven't done anything yet but he loves me and has called his family that he has seen a wife, I told him I want to learn a skill before anything so he told me that when he is through with our marriage that is when he will look for a job or open shop for me but he normally gives me money for hair, cream and lots.

More so right now am confuse please elders in the house I need matured advice because I can't pilot all this alone, the family of my kids father does not support the kids at all not even feeding. I hustle for house rent school fees and others alone and the help of my few family am thinking of going back to my mother's house but she is not that too strong because am from a polygamous house no help from any where, I am an OND holder which I struggle for myself alone, so am so frustrated this my marriage story is the why I need advice from you guys.

Sorry for the long post, I will be in the comment section please no insult.

This is my marriage story.

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