✓How Cheating Makes You Insensitive.

Cheating is a very serious relationship/marriage offence. When someone cheats on their partner/spouse, things will never remain the same.Yesterday I addressed the ladies with a promise of doing same with the men today. So my wonderful men, are you ready?
With the exception of some men who have been pushed to the wall by their wives in their marriages, cheating is unacceptable.  Cheating is the highest breach of trust in a marriage. Marriage is like a TRUST and the spouses are like the TRUSTEES.

There is a section of men who believe that cheating is in men's DNA, meaning, something they can't help. Another section of men believe that cheating is a trending thing, meaning, it isn't bad to be involved in cheating.

Whatever the section of men one belongs to, it's only ungodly men who cheat. No God-fearing man will "outrightly" cheat on his wife. 

As a man, I don't know how you feel about me. I have said it countless times in the secret and in the open that I have never cheated on my wife once. My wife will never pray for me never to cheat or to stop cheating on her. It's not a boast, but a personal decision born out of my desire to please God, respect my wife and honour my family.

Cheating is a lack of sexual discipline. As men, we all get tempted every day by single or married ladies, but why is it that not all men cheat on their wives?  For those who cheat, the issue isn't the temptations, but their lack of personal self-discipline.
As a man, by the grace of God, I've got some good looks, brains, money and baritone voice. But why don't I cheat on my wife? As a counselor and coach, over 90% of my counselees and mentees are females (single and married). I have met with some single ladies who wouldn't mind me asking them out, yet I won't cheat on my wife.

Dear men, your wife is enough for you. You don't need any side chick or mistress in your life. Make your wife your side chick or mistress. That's what most husbands do. Continue to be romantic and make your marriage fun-filled. 

Since we got married, my wife and I have been keeping the flames of love and romance up in our marriage. Years have gone by, yet we still relate in our marriage as if we just met. My wife is still as appealing to me as when I first met her. In fact, over the years, she has become more beautiful, more charming, more desirable and sexier to me. My love for her is on the increase daily.

Friends, "I love her die!"

Many husbands don't understand marriage as many married without adequate knowledge of marriage, readiness and personality. Wives are treasures, but not many men know how to handle treasures. A treasure isn't treasure except it's treasured.
As husbands, for your wife to remain attractive to you, you must keep showering her with unconditional love, words of affirmation, appreciation, respect, peace of mind, money and periodic gifts. In many marriages, wives are not taken care of, they are maltreated, ridiculed, overworked and disrespected. How can they remain attractive?

I have met families that God has helped financially but the wives are looking ragged and overworked. How can you live in a 5-6 bedroom duplex and let your wife do all the house chores alone everyday without some form of help? These days, life can be made a lot easier with the purchase of home appliances such as washing machine, dish washer, house help, etc. I met a family sometime last year. It's a young family with two young children. The wife is a full-time house wife, but the husband has a plum job. He is a manager in a company. He grosses over 3 million naira monthly. Yet has refused to get his wife a house help. When I asked why he was torturing his wife like that, he told me that since his wife is a full-time house she has all the time in the world to do all the house chores at home. After much persuasion, he changed his mind and promised to do the needful in that regard.

Dear husbands, women are like cars that must be SERVICED often and well in order to retain their beauty and longevity for a long time. A wife you don't cater for, overwork, maltreat, disrespect will be ageing faster, will lose her charm, beauty, self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence. My wife doesn't look her age at all, and at some occasions I have had to tell some people that she is far older than she looks. In my marriage, my wife is my side chick, mistress and whore. Like a car, I am servicing her well. She still looks very charming, romantic and appealing to me. 

Why would I look elsewhere? Dear men, please fix your homes and wives, and like me, you will never be tired of your wife.