5 Major Causes Of Delay In Marriage Among Women.

Life doesn't treat to all of us the same way. To some people, financial breakthrough and marital breakthrough happen to them early enough in their lives. Whereas with others, it might take them much time. The truth of the matter is that: everyone has their time with God.

Honestly speaking, I find it very disturbing and uncharitable when some men mock ladies who are still unmarried in their 30s or above. Some men have even posited that it's their bad character that hindered them from getting married. It's untrue because it's' not a general rule.

There are some certain things I will tell you that are responsible for women not marrying early enough. Let's briefly see the common factors.

1) Destined time: Everybody has a time with God. Your time may not be someone else's time.
2) Wrong suitors: Some ladies get proposal from wrong guys. You don't expect a lady to put up with a guy she will regret for life.

3) Time wasters: Some guys are good time wasters. How can a man date a lady for 5, 7, 10 and still be saying that he is not ready for marriage? Is that not witchcraft, no I mean wizardry? Now imagine wasting 5 or 10 years of a lady's life by telling her that you are not ready yet. How can she marry before 30?

4) Spiritual attacks: Some ladies are from families with a history of struggles with covenants of late marriage. These attacks reflect in their lives in many ways. One of which is constant relationship break-ups with no just cause.

5) Bad character: This is the least about the reasons why a lady may find it difficult to marry. Some ladies are very proud, domineering, debasing, arrogant. Now know this: while others may have been lucky enough to get married with their bad character, most weren't lucky at all. Although nobody is perfect, however, most men won't marry ladies with attributes they refer as bad character. Period!

Now to these men who are fond of mocking these ladies, if people mock you with your own challenge or struggle, how would you feel?

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