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Marriage Story - What's My Way Forward?

This life Marriage story below was sent to me the Admin of this domain by an active user of this website seeking advice from other website users as well.

I need HELP please. 
My wife and I have had some issues in the past but something made me to believe that it's so serious. 



I wanted to go to counseling to help with certain things which one was communication and how to make our union more happy and stronger.

I’ve had some health issues I’m dealing with right now. She agreed to counseling finally and for me to only find out that she wanted to take counseling to a different level and try to use it to end things amicably. I was blindsided. 

We still have a relationship where we do everyday normal things including our kids and say I love you and hold hands even, so I don't know what is going on.

I’m so so hurt but she said since the initial appt she wants to try to rekindle us. But the counselor also stated that she wants to be there and support me through the medical period. Which could mean after my surgery which is tomorrow, she could leave after I recover. 

I’m so lost and depressed. We’ve been together for coming up to 10 years. I need help please!!! 

My surgery is tomorrow morning and I’m getting more anxious about it because I’m so stressed which I know has to be affecting my body. 

I really need someone or multiple people to talk to. She’s giving me mixed signals and I’m so lost.

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