When Your Spouse Tells You It's Over.

I know it will be hard to let go, more especially when you have put in more effort in to that relationship or marriage for it to work and become successful like the ones you hear about or the ones you are seeing in the neighborhood. 

It hurts so badly but at that time, the only thing you can say is are you serious because it came as a surprise to you? 
It's important to think about the loving memories you guys have shared together in the past, remind your partner about these pleasant unforgettable experiences, seek for forgiveness if anywhere you have done wrong, and ask for second chance.

Make efforts to see that whatever that caused that decision is fixed because such decision can't be taken invaine, and if you're not accepted finally, you can just say thank you with so much taught on your mind and give the person some time to have a rethink of their decision.

While waiting for them to come back to you, don't block the person on social media or on the phone immediately rather use few days from the day such decision was taken to remind them via call or messages how deep you have loved them, how you have planned to leave together for the rest of your days here on earth, how you cherished them above other opposite gender and finally why they are special to you.

In all this, remember that what belongs to you will come back to you even if it was taken by force by someone else. If the person is truly yours, they will come back to you and apologized to be given a second chance, by them you should prove your love to them.

Crying and refusing to eat, or avoiding friends and family members, hiding in your room, refusing to go to believers gathering will not solve the problem of break Up or divorce, the best solution is for break Up or divorce is what I have mentioned above, and most importantly be focused, Pray seriously for it, seek advice from trust closed friend, a mentor or a family member because that's the best way to find lasting solutions.