One thing that's sure in marriage is that there will definitely be arguments, and misunderstanding but what's important is how you and your partner handled each of these things whenever it occurred.
Whether you are newly married or already in marriage for years, I want you to take notes of these things, as issues are popping up confronting your marriage, always settle it;
1. It will not grow to become a confronting challenge against your marriage.
2. Before it will ruin the marital intimacy between you and your soulmate.
3. So it will not affect your relationship with God as well as your prayer life, remember if you are always angry because of unsettled issues in your marriage you will rarely pray.
4. To avoid it making you lose the great sight you envisage for your marital union.
5. To avoid it start affecting your emotional, mental, and physical health. So many people are facing stress caused by marital issues that ordinarily would have been settled amicably.
6. Before the challenge will make you to forget how deep you have loved each other from the beginning of the marriage.
7. To avoid it affecting the mental health of your children and also the parental relationships you have with them. Remember children are very intelligent, you may think he or she doesn't know that there's misunderstanding between you and your partner not until you are a surprised question by that child, and your response would be, "how do you know about it?". I am a parent too, I am speaking from experience.
8. So it will not deny or steal the good memories your family should have created in love, joy, and happiness.
9. Settling every misunderstanding or conflicts in marriage immediately it occurred will prevent you or your spouse not to start acting negatively against each other. When you changed from being the person you doesn't want to negatively be against your lover, then your marriage is at the point of collapsing, I advise you avoid it at early stage so you can save your marriage.
10. Settle it on time before it will separate you and your partner thereby making one of you to find comfort in opposite gender's arm, when it has gotten to this level, then your marriage is shattered.
11. Have you ever imagined why sometimes you spoke to someone and the person respond angrily to you meanwhile you are very sure that you didn't offend the person? Many of this anger the person is pouring on you as a result of what is going on in their home with their significant other. It can happen to anyone irrespective of personality but the best way to avoid it happening to you is to settle things amicably at home with your soulmate so it will not affect or be transferred to your colleagues, children, parents or associates.
Everything in life is better handled carefully including Marriage, so carefully resolve issues before it escalate to a problem that would affect your home in the long run.
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